The phobia, large and small Psychology today

I have always thought that phobia was exciting inhibitors that stopped your dead life, such as Gerphobe, who lives in practically in Wrap SARAN to avoid pollution or a man who could not fly at his sister’s wedding without a file panic attacks. I know a few Agoraphobes who often come out. a period. The phobia about the concerns was so great that the person who suffers from it preferred to give up the pleasures of life – such as celebrating the family or the passenger pass to Kochilla – thanks to them. I thought the phobia was extreme in Nervousness The dimension … until I recently realized that I had one, if it was only small.

Many people may have one or two Phobia. Like me, it may be easy to hide, even from yourself, or it is easy to overlook. Especially if it does not affect your life in particular. But I think it is like me, it may be of psychological importance, regardless of its appearance.

I was in the bedroom in the college when I got out for the first time that I was unable to leave my bed from making it the way my colleague in the room did indifferently. I did not agree exactly. In a rush, I can leave my clothes everywhere or widespread on my office. But the bed had to be made. Why didn’t I know. It does not seem important enough to know that.

After years, I noticed that if my bed was not made or thought about leaving it not made, the strange awe will satisfy me, a feeling of nausea, sick in my stomach I could not bear it. I didn’t want to think about it. I just had to prevent him from happening. So I made my bed, and that was. Wherever I lived, whoever I live with, I was always the person who makes the bed. In the participation of homework with my husband for many years, I am still responsible for making bedding.

It is clear that this is not harmful phobia. Perhaps even one good, if the phobia can say it is good. Who does not prefer an arranged bedroom? I never thought about it. It will take a major shift in life to create a mental awakening that makes me think twice.

This shift in life was looming on the horizon Retirement And my desire to enjoy it completely. It is not a coincidence, as I also began to realize that I was a somewhat mandatory person everywhere, I started a Psychoanalysis This would reach the roots of my consciousness and show me how I slept from them. to treat I reduced the deepest concerns. In this process, he also freed me from my eating, including my little terror.

This coercion in bedding was not entitled to discussion with psychoanalysis or with anyone. In fact, he explained himself during the discovery of my basic problems, such as the constant impact of my father’s death when I was only two years old. Without words to express my fears or mother who could provide interpretations and comfort, I felt sorrowed from wasting my father’s extreme among us. I felt terror when he died a few months later, or in my mind, he disappeared. I was confused when no one talked about it again. The drama of life and death was revealed in front of me in our three -room apartment, in the bedroom adjacent to the kitchen where my mother prepared the morphine injection, and in the bed where my father spent all his time.

I now understand that my fears are attached to this bed, which is no longer made anymore. In the analysis, I finally understood strength and after this fear. Perhaps, too, my country sadness. I got to know these feelings closely. In my country transferI presented them to an analyst. However, with its help and my adult resources, I managed to reconsider these emotional disorders, and stay with them so that I can take it completely.

When I did it, the awe was dispersed from an unusual and usually bed. By the end of the treatment, I can leave the unpleasant bed until lunch at the time of lunch so that I can get out of long distances in the cold morning. Once or twice, even I left our bed in a state of chaos until evening, although I noticed, I immediately stood the edges time and the pillows are full despite our sleep within an hour.

You might say, my terrorist himself – that is, irrational fear of leaving the unusual bed – may say, invasive. As a practical issue, I really don’t need to deal with it. But although it is not important, most phobia expresses some feeling uncomfortable that you want –or Own-To avoid it. This means that it is likely that it deserves to be investigated, in a psychological analytical spirit.

The terminal may seem trivial. But the accompanying sense Maybe you can tell you a lot if you follow its progress in childhood Or to a time when I felt this feeling. On the way, it may happen to you, as I did for me, that the little phobia is not an anomaly. A larger image may fit, one deserves to look at it. You may feel great editing.

CODA: The night in which this blog wrote, I left the unusual bed, and without a second thinking, I only dragged the chaotic cover over me at bedtime.