Psychological warfare of parents

Family separation, and to cut The family members are increasingly recognized or removed from each other as an important social phenomenon in the United States, while the causes and forms of separation are varied, a sub -type known as the name Expatriate parents (PA) in which one of the parents intentionally exists for a child to reject, unjustified or Fearful The other father, often during high -conflict divorce or custody battles.

The result of manipulation and misleading, PA differs from other forms of separation in being unjustified and self -unlimited. In the Palestinian Authority, the child does not realize that separation from one of the parents is due to an external force, often the other parent. The child’s refusal to the father stems from the active manipulation by the other father.

The live experience of how it reveals alienation

PA is as a form of unjustified family influence, and as a specialist in sects and worship -like relationships, it is important for me because the unjustified effect is the same phenomenon that distinguishes sects. As is the case with the unjustified effect in the sects, the reality of the child is manipulated and independent in the Palestinian Authority .. instead of abroad leaderHe is one of the parents who becomes the agent of control.

The Palestinian Authority presses a child to believe in things falsely and take measures that are not in their interest. This is the definition of an unjustified effect: one person who is inappropriately used to impose it on someone Free willEspecially in situations that involve energy balance. Children have legal rights in safe relationships with loved parents, and certainly it is not in the interest of the child to be cut or separated from the supportive loved father.

The children of the Palestinian Authority are often informed by one of the parents that the other is dangerous, unpopular, and abusive. The result is a struggle of loyalty and gradual separation from the target father. The strange father may benefit from a variety of strategies, from public distortion of the target father to more treacherous forms of control, such as blocking messages or gifts, and a severe visit to the visit. The individual parent may raise the child’s sympathy through the habituing stories. Then the child accommodates the deformed reality.

It was also described by Dr. Amy Baker, who conducted the interview of dozens of adult children for her book Children of adults from parenting syndrome: breaking the links that linkThe perception of alienation rarely comes as a sudden diver feast. Instead, it is usually a slow process, and is often painful to rethink the individual’s past, which often caused the features of life, to treatOr watch similar dynamics in one’s relationships.

The permanent effect of relationship wounds

The consequences of the Palestinian Authority are deep and often for life. Children’s reporting report is a chronic decrease Self -respectDifficulties with confidence, depressionAnd even drug. Many find themselves repeating sociological patterns, alienated from their children, or struggle to form healthy attachments for adults. The common thread is Guilt To reject the loving father and shame For “deception” or treatment by the individual father.

This assimilation of guilt doubles from the fact that children, to maintain their basic bond with the individual father, must often suppress their true feelings of the target father. Baker explains: “The submission to the reality of the individual father was the price of admission in that relationship, and they paid this price, as most children do, without interrogation,” Baker explains. Not only can many of the imperfect adult children, but also lose parts of themselves.

How adult children realize that they are isolated

First, it is important to understand that many continuous myths obscure understanding and support for those affected by the Palestinian Authority, and often preventing wrong beliefs to reunification.

While Baker found that mothers are more repeatedly alienated than parents, philosophical power can be committed by any of the parents, regardless of sex Or the condition of the guard.

Moreover, the Palestinian Authority can occur in a sound or absolute Families. In families intact, one of the parents may systematically undermine the child’s relationship with the other, and the trinity and emotional engagement are often used. I have seen PA happening when a parent chooses to leave a high control and the other wants to stay.

Finally, it is not correct and not fair to assume that isolated parents should do something worth rejection. Society often assumes that the separate parent should be offensive or neglected. In fact, many targeted parents are loved and safe.

Adult children often have to destroy many of these myths on the way to reconnect. The journey is very individual, but research and living experience indicates many incentives common to adult children.

As children grow in adulthood and gain a physical and emotional distance from the individual father, they are more able to question the accounts that prevail over and summon positive memories of the target father. Many adult children begin to doubt the Palestinian Authority only after treatment enters into relevant issues, such as depression or anxietyOr discover the patterns of emotional manipulation in childhood.

Sometimes, extended family members, romantic partners, or even the isolated parent may communicate with alternative views. Some realize the fact that they experience only when they become fathers themselves, or when the parent is turning their hostility to them.

The trip is long, but the reward is great

The healing process from the Palestinian Authority is not written. The parental alienation, in essence, is a strong and deep form of Psychological abuse. Adult children and their parents are often left to confront them AngerUnfortunately and a deep feeling of loss. Many of the 20 years or more children have lost with their isolated father and they should wrestle with the awareness of what should have been.

It is very important to the healing process to release feelings of shame and self -blame. Often, re -calling you want to think about another aspect of the story, to approach the target parent as an adult. It is necessary to accept that the past cannot be rewritten, but the future can be different.