How twins learn to follow rules and expectations

All children, under the guidance of their parents and teachers, must learn to sort out issues related to obeying rules and respecting others. like other children, Twins They often find it difficult to follow through with what is expected of them.

Raising twins is often difficult because twins band together to make their own way and develop their own rules. In other words, twins agree verbally and non-verbally to do what they want to do. Together they work out how to “not listen so hard” and deal with expectations from authorities. Ignoring rules like “don’t quarrel with your brother or sister” is the most common trend that is not followed.

Without a doubt, twins Resilience The arrogance of parental expectations causes serious problems for the responsible authorities. Twins are a double problem and enjoy their power.

This brief article will begin to try to explain how twins work a personality Different from single people’s personalities. Parenting This is about identity Development requires a different approach than is required for infants and unmarried children.

What helps keep twins conforming to parent and school standards and expectations?

When parental or school discipline is recognized and respected, twins can learn how to get along with each other and fit into the non-twin world. I say this because through their experiences together, twins make their own rules about what is acceptable and what is wrong and should be avoided when dividing any type of property or… attention. For example, twins share their mother’s womb when they are born. Outside, they will cry or fight over who will be cared for or fed first. Hopefully, through their experiences of home life with parents setting a schedule, they know well that there will be enough food, attention, and fun to share.

How sharing is implemented depends on the parent’s and/or twin’s rules about how the twin’s objects, interactions, and activities are divided. It is understandable, or inevitable, that there is no way to make twins always follow the rules or use good judgment to avoid problems with each other or with non-twins. The struggle over which of the twins is right and who is wrong never ends for a long time. a race Comparison sometimes makes following the rules impossible. It goes without saying that disciplining twins has some behavioral problems that are difficult to overcome. Furthermore, raising twins is stressful and often confusing. “Who started the problem?” and “Who makes it worse?” It is difficult to understand and deal with.

Hands-on approach to the discipline

There are many books and magazines that give parents advice on how to control their children’s unacceptable behavior. In general, there is no single way to deal with discipline problems. Every baby, including twins, is different and will need treatment tailored to their needs to help them calm down. Allowing children to learn that discipline for prohibited behavior results in already prescribed consequences, such as no TV, computer, or video games, works for me and the families I try to help. The following ideas should be part of your discipline approach.

Following the rules you set is essential.
Be consistent.
Treat your children as individuals and do not punish a child for what his twin did.
Use rewards and consequences to enforce your rules.
Avoid favoritism.

Conclusions

Well-planned discipline takes time, patience, and clear expectations. On the other hand, aggressive behavior, hitting, beatingscreaming, or bullyingNot only is it ineffective but it is harmful to your child’s identity and… Self-confidence. Modeling calm behavior (i.e. presenting ideas of acceptable behavior clearly and understandably) will help you and your twin deal with less conflict between everyone. Consequences and rewards are very helpful. I know from my experience with twins that you have to be clear and concise about your standards and expectations. When you are organized and confident in how you create and communicate your rules, you will definitely get better results.

Twin confusion and fighting can continue. Having a plan to mitigate and manage the condition is not only very possible, but valuable to the entire group of individuals who interact with twins.