How the local aggressors attribute their victims

Many people know someone who is abused by an intimate partner. Between family, friends, neighbors, or co -workers, so that the scenes are suspected of being concerned for safety. your Professional life Public Prosecutor, I have been written before Why are the victims of domestic violence back to the aggressors?and(I) How to discover Home violence in the workplace,(the second) and How are some aggressors? They are able to make dangerous features look desirable.(Third) However, one of the most treacherous ways that the perpetrators frustrate justice and evading accountability by coercing the victims to retreat. The research explains.

Drafting violence and abuse

Amy E Bonmi and others. (2011) He studied real cases after the abuse, as the suspects tried to persuade their victims to retreat.(Fourth) Using a sample of 25 different sexes, the search team examined live phone conversations between Domestic violence The perpetrators and victims to find out how and why the victims decided to retreat and/or resist the prosecution. In all the cases they studied, the perpetrator of the crime was detained for domestic violence at the level of the felony and called the female victim during his imprisonment before completion. Check 30-192 minutes of chat data for each couple, Bonomi et al. The personal operations associated with the victim’s intention to retreat, as well as how the couple built their decline plan.

While recognizing the basic forced personal dynamics, their results showed that the victim’s intention to retreat was greatly affected by the stabbing of the crime by sympathy. These included descriptions of suffering from both mental and physical conditions, and “unbearable” circumstances in prison, and the other we heard several times in post -abuse places, and the thought that cannot be conceived in life without the victim. Bonomi et al. I mentioned that crime tactics also included a reduction in ill -treatment, as well as both parties perceive life, regardless of each other.

Once the victim decided to retreat, the couple created a decline plan by redefining the abuse to protect the perpetrator, and blamed the state for separation, and agreed on details about the following steps. In this way, within the continuous interactions between the suspects and victims, Bonomi et al. Determine how the perpetrators used sympathy strategies and reduce their successful victims to decline, as well as the strategies that the couple used together to maintain their relationship.

Watch the absurdity

Bonomi et al. Inviting the crime perpetrator strategy by name: Watch the absurdity. When admitting familiarity between the prosecutors and the victims’ advocates, they define this strategy as a major problem in prosecuting domestic violence. In line with the topic of manipulation, however, they also notice the clear absence of direct threats. Only one perpetrator threatened the victim’s study directly, a warning: “If you go against me, that will be the worst mistake I made in your whole life.” They notice that although all husbands may risk future violence, the perpetrators in their study used more advanced strategies Persuasion.

Reducing minimal and successfully described the victim’s grief, GuiltAnd sympathy, and motivate them to change their stories to protect the aggressors. Bonomi et al. It also revealed the desire of the victims to preserve the relationship, and the joint efforts used by the two parties to form the decline plan. By blaming the prosecution, for example, the couple cooperated as “victims” against “an unfair judicial operation”.

Follow -up to prevent and intervention

In recognition of the great challenges you face in the treatment of the malicious epidemic of domestic violence, we continue to follow the efforts made in prevention and intervention. If you see something, say something; For partners with abuse, personal and professional assistance is available.